There are auspicious wedding dates that some people tend to observe. These days are considered to be “lucky” for marriage and what not and are commonly listed in Chinese calendars. Calendars are available annually at Chinese grocers, usually as a gift. Fortunately, there are several websites that have the dates, including this one: Auspicious Chinese Wedding Dates in 2013.

Of if you’re old school you can always pick up the almanac.

Annette: “I pick 10/19″
Ray: “Oki doki”
Annette: “If 10/19 doesn’t work out, my second pick is 9/14. Good?”
Ray: “Yup”
Annette: “Actually… 10/19, 9/7, 9/14. In that order”